Monday, March 24, 2008

A true meaning

So many people nowadays, even so-called christians, think it "ok" to have sex outside of marriage, most would say not during marriage, but that comes more from a selfishness of wanting something all to oneself rather than the desire of God to see purity carried out. This truly disguists me, people want some reason not to do something, when there are many already. The fact that God tells me not to do something, is plenty reason enough for me to refrain! This should be sufficient for anyone because God, of course, knows more than we do. People who don't hold God's commands in high regard can not know God truly. No one can wake up one day and have rejected God's salvation when they have accepted it before. No one can lose their salvation, if you have it, then it gives a peace and love nothing else can give and you will never let go.
Another thing to think of is the fact of STD's, it is not just something to be careful about, think of it this way "If God wanted you to have sex outside of marriage, he would not have made Sexually-Transmitted-Diseases!" Think about it. Nothing that God thinks is appropriate for us to do, would he ever make harmful for us. Those who do not believe in God, there is no other real reason why they shouldn't, sin is fun, but it isn't fulfilling, that is why almost every relationship that turns to fornication breaks apart in less than a month. More people who get married get divorced than stay together. It is so sad. I can give reason for this. In every case, it is because one or both didn't follow God's guidelines for marriage, whether by before or during. How can we expect it to work when we don't do it right? Even if you foolishly marry someone who doesn't meet your expectations, if he/she doesn't break one of the three divorcable laws in the bible[abuse(physical, or economical such as drugs or alcohol), adultery, or abandonment], you must stay married to them. If you make a mistake, you must live with the consequences, a foolish marriage must not resolve itself with more sin. And if a guy gets a girl pregnant, the only honorable thing to do would be marriage to her. He may say, "I don't want to marry her, I don't love her." Well then, you should have thought of that before you made such a drastic choice. If you were man enough to have sex with her, then you are man enough to make right by it. God's way is always the best, and if we don't follow it, we can never expect to come to a good end. I'll choose God's way and enjoy the precious life, I hope you will too.

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